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Life doesn’t end at 50, so why let age get in the way of one of life’s great pleasures – finding someone to relate to and possibly fall in love with? Dating is not just for young men and women but also for senior people.

Many senior people arrive at their golden years without a spouse or a sweetheart to speak of. Whether you’ve never been married, you’re recovering from a divorce, or you’re getting back out there after the loss of a dearly departed spouse, you’ve decided to hit the dating scene again. Sure, it can be daunting to start “all that” over again. Doing it online instead of in the real world can seem even scarier. But thousands of people in their 50s and beyond have ventured into this arena, and you can too.

All you need is an open mind and basic familiarity with websites. If you can email or use Facebook, you can navigate online dating.

From friendship to romance, here’s a roundup of the best senior dating sites.

Sophisticated and intelligent, EliteSingles caters to exclusive singles, including a vibrant pool of seniors. The site maintains high standards for their users and 82% of their members hold either a Bachelor’s, Master’s, or Doctorate degree. Needless to say, they cater to educated, mature singles.

To build a profile, daters must complete a detailed psychology test. The results create a filtering system to provide you with ideal matches, helping save you time and energy sifting through hundreds of undesirable profiles. Overall, Elite Singles is true to its name, keeping things elite for seniors looking for love.

Most of us know it—eHarmony is a long-standing dating site, but did you know it caters to seniors? With over 33 million registered members, it can help senior singles to meet serious, life-long partners.

The automated pairing system on eHarmony is highly respected for its excellent match-making technology. Like magic, seniors can find the best possible partner based on the information they submit while creating their profile. The success rate is pretty high—5% of all marriages in the U.S. come from eHarmony.

The registration process is straightforward but pretty long since they match you with people based on how you answer a series of questions. Once you register, you can start browsing profiles but messaging singles is available at a cost. Overall, the site identifies as a place for people who are serious about relationships.

At any age, love can be found. Make sure you choose the right senior dating site the best meets your needs. Every platform has their own style and caters to certain types of singles, so join a site that celebrates the same values you care for most.

Since 1999, ChristianCafe.com has been the Christian dating site of choice for millions of Christian singles from across the globe. From young singles to those divorced and widowed (yes, even seniors), Christians have trusted ChristianCafe.com in helping them meet others who share their faith and values.

ChristianCafe.com is more than just a Christian Dating site. Many of thier members seek fellowship, support, advice and laughs through group conversation on the site.

SilverSingles is a senior dating site that attracts 65,000 new members each week. Unlike most other senior dating websites which encourage any singles over 50 to join, it only would like single professionals to become their members. So users on SilverSingles are well-educated professionals looking for love in their golden years. This has really differentiated it from competitors on the market. Due to its popularity and success, SilverSingles has been trusted by a large number of senior singles all over the world and its matchmaking success rate is extremely high as well

Useful Tips

 

1. Start Off on an Honest Foot

Everyone wants to look their best in a dating profile. There’s nothing wrong with choosing photographs that are especially attractive. Make sure they are current photos, however. That means ones that reflect how you appear now, not when you were 30 pounds lighter or 15 years younger.

Enlist the aid of someone who knows you well to help you select a photo that is flattering and accurate. A good friend, your kids or a sibling may be happy to review shots and give you the honest truth.

2. Have Realistic Expectations

When looking at dating sites, it’s easy to get caught up in all the gleaming profiles presented for your approval. However, as you probably realized when crafting the perfect profile for yourself, it’s all too easy to misrepresent oneself. When you first started dating years ago, there was no “buffet” available on the Internet – you had to see people as they were. So it is with online dating; it’s just a different way of figuring out who is right for you.

Of course, you will want an initial attraction. But keep in mind that you – and potential dates – are at different stages in your lives. No matter what a person posts for public display, if he or she is in your age range, there is likely to be evidence of that age. Hair loss, graying and perhaps a few extra pounds may be in the mix.

3. Leave Your Baggage at the Door

Daters in their 50s and above have a history of experiences that younger men and women don’t. You’ve probably weathered a divorce (or lost your spouse) and may still be processing negative feelings about that. You may have children, grandchildren or aging parents. You could have health concerns that weren’t present when you were younger.

Although it’s hard sometimes to not let feelings come out about the not-so-shiny aspects of your life, your first contact with a new person is not the time to discuss such things. It may be tempting to reveal lots of information about yourself in the initial pre-date “chatting” stage, but try to stay positive and controlled.

4. Meet Safely and Simply

So you’ve found someone interesting and have exchanged emails or phone calls. Now it’s time to meet in person.

Take basic precautions for meeting someone new. Meet in a neutral place that is familiar. Tell a friend, relative or someone you trust about the date. There’s no need to get into details – just “I’m going out with a new friend, and we’re meeting at Starbucks” will suffice.

Speaking of Starbucks, coffee is great for a first date, as it allows space for comfortable conversation without the commitment of a full evening’s activities. If you find things are going well, you can certainly extend the date to dinner or some other activity. Scope out what’s going on nearby, from restaurants to movie times, to be prepared.

After your date, be sure to follow up (email or text is fine), and don’t be worried if you have several prospects. A benefit of online dating is the sheer reach, allowing people of all ages to meet others who they might never have met before.

So embrace the process of online dating over 50 and enjoy the journey.


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